Love quite possibly is the most intense and satisfying feeling a human can have. Have you ever loved someone so much it hurt? Or have you ever had someone tell you that they love you unexpectedly? Those feelings that you feel, are the feelings that keep you alive. So, Love is, in no uncertain terms, what you see on the big screen. There will never be endless hours of looking into each others eyes. Love is not an emotion, it is a thought. Emotions come and go this why love is a thought, you chose to love. So what should love entail?
Love should ultimately be a balance of deep respect, admiration, and chemistry. Love involves patience kindness and effective communicating from both partners. You must be able to work together, not against each other. This is love. This is worth it.
Those feelings show you what life is all about. If you walked through life, shutting everyone out, and never loving anyone do you think you'd be happy? Would it make you happy to know that there wasn't one person in the world who wanted to be with you? Of course not….Everyone wants to be loved.
Sometimes it can be very hard to find true love. And sometimes the trouble you go to for one person really isn't worth it. That doesn't mean you turn your back on love and give up. You just keep on looking. Usually all say that love finds you when you least expect it.
Have you ever known one of those cute and sweet little couples , you know the ones who are in their 80s and where childhood sweethearts? The ones that make you smile. If that couple didn't believe in love and didn't believe love was worth it, would they still be together 65 years on? Probably not.
Everyone in life must take chances. Whether it is at school, in love or even in the clothes you wear. Having another love you unconditionally is probably one of the best feelings you will ever come across. Sure sometimes there will be arguments and there will be times when you feel down, like you just can't win. But then there are times when you really know its all worth it.
Like when you get that sweet little text when you are having a shitty day at work and it just wipes away all feelings of anger and annoyance. Or when you are lying cuddled up beside them at night, with not a care in the world. Or simply when they say "I love you". Quite simply if a love is pure without thinking only at intimacy, and honest and true then yes it will be worth it.
The positive will always outweigh the negative. However I don't always necessary think people are worth it. You could be with the biggest hole in the world and love him with all your heart yet you'll know it is not worth it. That doesn't mean love isn't worth it. It is just that person isn't the right one for you. If you want to go through life alone then you can fool yourself that love isn't worth the hassle. But deep down when you find that right person you know it is. You'll know every single sacrifice and every tear for love you've cried will be worth it. When you meet the person who changes your world, you'll know it was all worth it.