4 Tips to Find Your True Love

True love is not as elusive as most people believe. One of the common reasons why many people have a hard time finding true love is because they don’t know what it is in the first place. If you want to know who you’re destined to be with for the rest of your life then the secrets to discovering his identity lie below.

Tip #1: Make a list of what you want and don’t want in a guy.

Be very specific. Start by listing five traits that your ideal guy must and mustn’t have. You have to be practical and completely honest about yourself. Skip superficial traits like eye or skin color. Think of traits that really matter. Contrary to what most people think, finding true love isn’t all about making compromises. Rather, it’s about searching for that one person that complements you best.

You may think you don’t know what type of guy your ideal man would be but you do know it. You just have to look deep inside yourself. Consider, for instance, something that you can’t give up. Are you a dedicated bibliophile? If so, the guy you love must understand and respect your love for books and would never attempt to take it away from you.

Tip #2: You must share the same goals for the future.

Finding true love is also about searching for that one guy who wants the same things that you do. It doesn’t have to be completely the same but both of you should at least share the same vision for the future. If you’re the career-oriented type and you don’t really see yourself having any kids then your future partner must not have any problems with this. It’s not enough that he understands your decision. Rather, he must appreciate your decision as well because he feels the same way regardless of the reason.

Tip #3: You must enjoy each other company’s even without the passion.

Simply put, finding true love is akin to finding your best friend for life. It’s unfortunate that a lot of people fail to understand how some couples see each other as best friends. It only means that they haven’t experienced the same thing, which consequently means they haven’t found their destined partners either.

Passion is a key ingredient in relationships, yes, but it can’t be something that would completely consume your time. There will be instances when passion is not the right answer and what then? Do you find yourself bored? Those who are really into each other have fun with each other no matter what they’re doing and even if they aren’t speaking. They’re simply happy because they’re together.

Tip #4: Both of you must be lucky to have each other.

Finding true love is also about never settling for second best. You shouldn’t stay with a guy because you feel incredibly lucky to have him and you’d be a fool to give him up. That means you feel unworthy of him and you shouldn’t feel like that.

Sometimes, in finding true love, you have to give up something good to make way for something great.

How to Tell If You’ve Got a Compatible Love Connection Weird But True

Are you in love with someone who may NOT be in love with you? Or have you simply just met someone great… and are not sure if you’ve got a genuine connection, or was it simply JUST a “one night” or passing thing? The truth is, there is a HUGE difference between a spiritual, soul level love connection and a chance encounter with someone you really LIKE, but is not destined to go anywhere special, even though you may think it will. How do you tell the difference? Continue reading and I’ll share MY thoughts below!

What is a genuine love connection anyway?

Good question! In my view, a genuine love connection is something that transcends chance, luck or time. It’s often a connection that goes beyond this lifetime… and is interwoven into your karma, and the destiny that I believe we all come into this world to fulfill.

Does everyone have a spiritual soulmate… or is that idea silly?

The truth? I believe that EVERYONE has a soulmate, or a spiritual partner that is unique to them. The fact is, for one reason or another, most of us will never “find” our soul-mates… or at least, recognize them once they enter our lives, if only for a moment. The reasons? We are all so distracted… and willing to “settle” for lives, and loves FAR less than that which we came into the world to enjoy.

How can I find a genuine love connection in MY life… or tell if the relationship right now is “IT”?

The truth is, I believe that deep within your gut… you know it already. All of us have an incredible psychic insight, and super sensitivity, when it comes to love and a genuine soul-level, spiritual connection with another person. A good emotional empath, or love psychic will help you recognize what you already KNOW to be true… or help you see “through” the illusion of comfort and complacency that many of us have about our EXISTING relationships. (even though in that place of truth, we know they are either right, or wrong for us… already!)

What about aura’s, and energies and the undeniable CHEMISTRY that exists between two people?

I am a firm believer that ALL of the above is a great way of discovering your true spiritual partner, and identifying a genuine love connection with another soul.

The truth is, all energy emits a color… and can be read, interpreted and visually studied by sensitives, or emotional empaths, who see what most cannot. Science is finally coming around to this fact as well… calling this “subtle energy” or lumping it into quantum physics! But this is the very same thing that mystics, psychics and gifted intuitives have been talking about for literally hundreds of years… and today, in my view, it’s one of the EASIEST ways to discover your TRUE love soul connection and spiritual other half that there is… I promise!

Will She Ever Fall in Love With Me? – Here’s How to Finally Win Her Over

Being in love with a woman is one of the best things in the world, unless, she just does not seem to feel the same way about you. Women sometimes wonder why guys have a hard time being the first one to utter the words, “I love you,” but they do not understand the very real fear that most guys have about finding out a woman just does not feel the same way. And I am sure that you have had at least a few experiences in your life when you just could not seem to figure out how to make a woman fall in love. Not anymore. You are about to discover how to make her fall for you!

Here are some things that you need to know if you want to make a woman fall in love with you:

  1. A woman will fall in love with a guy that does not fall all over himself trying to please her.

Time and time again, guys will try the old trick of being a doormat to a woman and think that this is the secret that will make her love them. Well, time and time again it gets proven that this is NOT the way to go. See, when you do that, when you fall all over yourself just to make her want you or like you, you are taking on the submissive role. You are hoping that somehow you can prove yourself worthy to her and women just don’t respond to this the way that you want them to.

  1. To make her fall in love, she needs to know what it’s like when you are not there.

One of the things that will really make a woman realize that she just might love you, is that feeling that she gets when you are not around. What most men end up doing wrong is… they are ALWAYS there! Out of insecurity or neediness, most guys will try to be around a woman that they are attracted to as often as they can. Well, when does she get the time to miss you if you do this? You need to give her that time when she gets to feel what it is like when you are not around.

  1. She needs to see that you are going to be able to please her in more ways than one.

I think that you know what I mean by please her in this context. I am not talking about running around town looking for that perfect pair of jeans that she has been searching for. Yes, the sex thing IS a part of being able to make a woman fall in love with you. If there is no heat between you and her, it’s not going to happen, at least not on a romantic level.

5 Tips to Help You Find Love After a Breakup

After a breakup it can be hard to even think about love for a while. In fact, love may be something that seems impossible when your heart is broken and aching. But one day you will want to find love again.

When you are ready to find love again use the following tips to your advantage. They will ensure that you don’t scare away potential love interests and they will get you back into the dating scene smoothly and effortlessly.

  1. Don’t Be The Past You

Of course you don’t want to talk to your dates about your ex and all the things they did to hurt your heart, you probably know that already, but I’m talking about leaving the past in the past for yourself.

Your ex may have caused you to feel as though you are not a good kisser, talker, or even lover, and you may be holding those beliefs inside your head and becoming anxious over them. Try to remember that your past is just your past and you are not that person any longer. You can be a good kisser, talker, or lover now and you don’t have to tell yourself otherwise. And for the most part, anything your ex told you was out of spite or anger – it doesn’t mean that what they said was true.

  1. Don’t Be Needy

If you want to find love again and you are starting to feel that it is a mission of yours, then you will start to come across as being needy, and that’s not good. That will push (scare) away any potential love interests and cause you to become even more needy when they run away. Stay cool. Stay relaxed. And let love find you!

  1. Don’t Find Love in Your Ex if It’s Not There

Sometimes after a breakup you can start to miss your ex and remember the good times and traits your ex had. You may forget about all the bad times you had together and how your ex didn’t treat you well in your relationship. This happens all the time.

Let me save you the double heartache with your ex. You will end up back together. It will be good for a while. And then you WILL break up again. Millions of people do it everyday! It doesn’t work if the issues that were there before are still there, and if you haven’t fixed the issues then they WILL still be there.

As hard as it may be, find love with someone new. Someone who doesn’t have the issues your ex did. The chances of you finding love that will last are much higher.

  1. Don’t Look For Someone Like Your Ex

If you are looking for someone who talked to you in that baby voice you liked or understood you when you ‘gave them a look’ then you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Your ex and you had a unique bond, one that you will probably not find with someone else. That’s why it was unique! They may have gotten you on a level that no one else can, but that doesn’t mean that someone else can’t get you on an even better level! Don’t expect certain things when you want to find love or you may be setting someone new up for failure.

  1. Don’t Expect To Find Love

If you set yourself up with high expectations of finding love right now, because you want it, then you may get let down and start to get angry, hurt, or even depressed.

Love is something that is going to come when you are ready, not when you demand it. Expectations can often result in disappointment, and disappointment can result in giving up or heading back to your ex. Both of those situations would not be good.

So let love come to you and don’t put a time-line on it! Enjoy each and every day whether you have found love or not. You will be happier because of it!

Celebrate The Week of Love

The month of February is the most romantic month of the year. As on 14th of February, the entire world celebrates Valentine’s Day, the entire week, i.e., 7th of February to 14t February is celebrated as the valentine’s week. This is the perfect time for the lovebirds or say, the couples to express their feelings for their respective partners. Here below is provided the detailed description of the valentine’s week so that you can plan your week for your partner accordingly.

Rose Day – 7th Feb: Start the valentine’s week by presenting beautiful rose or bouquet of roses to your beloved. You can also customize it, using the services like custom message on the rose flower petals. In addition to this, the natural beauty and fragrance of the roses will increase love and romance in your life.

Propose Day – 8th Feb: End your wait for proposing your partner on this day. This is dedicated for proposals and you make this day special for partner by proposing and gifting something special. For proposing, you can also make use of some of the famous bollywood styles.

Chocolate Day – 9th Feb: Add some sweetness to your relationship, this day. This day, you can gift chocolate to your beloved. It is believed that gifting chocolates increase the charm of relation.

Teddy Day – 10th Feb: With all this, don’t forget to add some cute elements in your relationship. For this, you can gift lovey dovey teddy bears to your partner. Moreover, this is an important day for boys as girls are very fond of teddy bears. So, go and impress her and make her feel special and cared.

Promise Day – 11th Feb: Love brings lots of promises and commitments. If your love is true and genuine, don’t try to escape from those promises and commitments. In addition to this, boost your relationship by fulfilling those commitments and promises.

Kiss Day – 12th Feb: On the fifth day of the valentine’s week, plan for a kiss and claim your love. As a piece of advice, don’t forget to eat some mouth fresheners.

Hug Day – 13th Feb: Embrace your partner and show your mighty love with big warm hug. Hug your partner with full emotion and make your partner feel special.

Valentine’s Day – 14th Feb: Finally, the day is here. Hold your partner’s hand, look into each other’s eyes and confess your love to each other. Don’t forget to make the day special by arranging a special date for your parent.

Unique Valentine Day Gifts Moving Away From Traditional

One doesn’t need an occasion to express love. However, from the ancient days, from the time when St. Valentine made his appearance to express his love, people the world over have chosen mid-February to take the plunge. The significance of Valentines Day on the 14th of February is not very clear, but this is definitely the season when romance is in the air.

Love is always reciprocated with love and it works true for every leaving creature. And when it is to an important person in our lives, we tend to add flavors to it so as to ensure our love for the other person is expressed in its completeness. Gifts make up for the physical aspect. It’s symbolizes ones feeling. Gifts tend to express the tenderness, the closeness; the understanding one has for the other. Come Valentines Day, and we find the market place full of gifts tagged “for your loved one”. However, when buying a valentine day gifts, it is better to keep the person’s choice in mind.

While considering valentines day gift ideas, depending on the person being your wife, girlfriend or someone with whom there has been a long standing relationship, romantic gift baskets are a fine way express one’s love. If one is into a new relationship or on the verge of building a relationship, then one need to browse the brick and mortar shops or an online store for the perfect valentine day gift for her, something that might be befitting her personality. However, to keep the traditional touch, one can always safely go for a box of exquisite chocolates with a bunch of red roses, or an exquisite piece of jewellery, which is sure enough to sweep her off her feet.

In case one is choosing a Valentines Day gift for himthen one can pick any of the latest gadgets from the online electronic store. This might be a safe option as most boys are electronic freaks but there is a possibility of the person already possessing the gadget. To lend the personal touch to the gifts one picks up, one needs to understand the other person’s personality, interest and brand used.

Some people tend to be different and for them one can plan out unique Valentines Day gifts. It can be anything from an adventure trip, a cruise, romantic holiday, or even a hot air balloon ride. With technology on your side, gifting has become even easier. There are a number of online shopping portals, which have a wide variety of valentine day gifts lined up to choose from. Further, some of these portals also let you put in your creativity to send unique Valentine’s gifts to express your love. With options of online payment, these gifts can be delivered to your loved ones even if you are miles away.

Information About For – Valentine’s Day Cards For Your Love

Love is a symbol of eternity and once it touches your heart, you are never the same again. You see all your happiness and joys with your partner. Life seems an unending serenade encircling you with all the worldly bliss.

Valentines Day is the most cherished and anticipated day for the lovers all over the world. Time, when couples try to rekindle their romance and heat up the lost passions. It’s the perfect occasion to open your heart and convey the innermost feelings of love, tenderness, caress and affection. If you have a crush on someone or dating then there’s no better day then Valentines Day, to let the heart thumping emotions come out.

Spread the magic of love and make it reach to someone special in your life through Valentines Day cards. Cards dolled up with beautiful imagery and romantic quotations and heart touching content is the ideal and most preferred choice for Valentines Day. -There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved.~ by George Sand ~-Love is an act of endless forgiveness A tender look which becomes a habit.~ by Peter Ustinov ~-Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies. Love defies all reasons, love has no eyes. But love is not blind, love sees but doesn’t mind.~ by Author unknown ~-Love is the enchanted dawn of every heart.- Lamartine

It’s a common belief that Valentine was the first person to send Valentine’s greeting. In prison he fell in love with his jailor’s daughter, while she visited her father during his confinement. Just before his death, he wrote her a letter, which he signed From Your Valentine, an expression which is a benchmark for lovers all over the world till this date. Esther Howland, famously known, as mother of valentine was the trendsetter. She firstly, mass produced the commercial cards and, decorated it with lace, ribbons. Soon after the craze of exchanging greeting cards caught up. On Valentine’s Day, the business of greeting cards goes up with skyrocketing speed. As per the Greeting Cards Association estimates, one billion cards are sent on Valentine’s Day alone, making it second largest card sending holiday of the year (estimated 2.6 million cards are sent in Christmas).

Besides the usual greeting cards made of good quality paper, there’s Valentine ecards also. Numerous sites are offering cards online. With the accessibility of Internet and reliability on computers increasing, ecards have a lot to offer. Show your love with Valentines Day eCards, as it’s easy, fast and cheaper.

Beautify your love card, put it in a scented envelope and decorate it with silk lace, sparkles and glitters. Just love cards won’t do the trick. Go an extra mile and send the corset of flowers, jewelry set, or fluffy teddy along with the Valentine’s Day cards. As the love enchants everyone round the world, mollycoddle your beloved with all your heart, as it’s the time when soul meets soul. Seal the moments of togetherness and make it a treasured experience with host of Valentine e card and Valentines Day cards.

Are You Keeping Him or Freaking Him?

Who hasn’t fibbed or fudged it to catch or keep a man? ‘All’s fair in lust and war. We’ll, that was my excuse,’ says 28 year old freelance copyrighter Candace. But while her friends were prepared to buy it when she bleached her stunning auburn hair – pubes included – to attract Zane, a visiting international ballplayer who preferred blondes, they balked when she began dropping assignments and other interests – including them – to be with him.

He, it emerged, was as possessive of his blondes as of the ball. It was when Candace got pregnant to keep him that she nearly lost all of her friends entirely, along with the plot.

‘What can I say?’ she sighs today. ‘I was 23 and crazily in wouldn’t commit and his contract was coming to an end. I seriously thought throwing in my job and following him around the world with a baby could make us happy.’

Candace blamed antibiotics for upsetting her cycle on the Pill, and Zane believed her – but backed straight out. He didn’t ask for tests and offered to pay maintenance, but that wasn’t what she was after. At the time she was devastated and when she miscarried at two months she almost had a breakdown. That’s when she turned to professional help and began questioning how she’s arrived at that point.

‘When you want something so much, you just do what you feel you must do,’ she says now. ‘It’s really hard to know how much is too much. And it’s even harder to hold back.’

How Much is Too Much?

It’s healthy and necessary to compromise in relationships and to sacrifice to some degree. Sometimes relationships require some healthy pretence. You may need to pretend you’re not irritated about something small and let it go to keep the peace. It’s when you have to pretend about things because you’re anxious you’ll lose him if you are yourself, or when you start to lose your sense of identity in the process of pretending, that it starts to become unhealthy.

Women often fib or change themselves to a degree to be attractive to their partners. How many women wake up in the morning next to a man the way nature intended – with absolutely no effort made? It’s not necessary to tell him everything you do to improve yourself physically and in other ways, such as through the tips you pick up in self help books or the advice you get from other people.

It’s the intent and the extent of the behavior that is important. The point to watch for is when your decisions become ‘other centered’, and when you lose a clear sense of who you are and what fits with you. If you press pass this point, you risk losing the sense of who you are, and risk re-creating yourself as something you believe someone else wants.

This is a sign that your liking or loving them has turned into an unhealthy obsession. And the irony is that the more you do this, and the tighter you cling, the more you will frighten off the object of your affection and risk getting the very result you fear.

Are You at Risk?

The woman who goes too far to get or keep a man fails to see that the more desperate she becomes, the more he’ll avoid her because of the intensity and anxiety in the air. A vicious cycle is created, with the potential to escalate past sad or silly to scary – deliberately getting pregnant, undergoing surgery, using love potions, even stalking or harming the man or hurting yourself.

Think Hard Before you Act on your Emotions

Changing yourself significantly, lying or acting in order to win or keep someone is about a deep fear of being different or separate. These devices usually operate to protect you psychologically from feeling that difference implies an aching separateness rather than a healthy differentiation. When you do this and are not yourself, or don’t have your own opinions, you are what psychologists refer to as ‘dependent’ – you assume the other person won’t like you, or will disapprove of you or reject you because of who you are.

This is an indication of low or nonexistent confidence – often the result of an upbringing that didn’t provide consistency and security. The problem is that in a relationship, if you change or put on an act to win or keep a partner, you’ll end up with a sense that the relationship lacks connection and depth. You’ll also lose trust. The outcome will be neurosis and anxiety.

Reading the Signs

Changing yourself for someone else is just one of the signs of unhealthy obsession. If you can’t concentrate on your normal daily demands, if you can’t stop yourself phoning, SMSing or emailing the person incessantly and if they’re indicating they don’t want to be with you but you don’t want to accept it. And get professional help if you start checking on them, or following them or having thoughts about harming them or yourself.

How to Turn Back

Before you make a decision you may regret, from getting pregnant to getting a boob job, understand that actions have consequences. They can change your life for the worse, forever, so think hard before you act on your emotions. No man is worth serving a prison sentence for. There’s no one and no unrequited or broken relationship that you can’t get over in time.

In therapy it’s possible to explore the roots of unhealthy, potentially damaging urges and learn ways to resist or channel them, and to find ways to build confidence.

In The Line of Fire

Another argument with your woman has come and gone right past you. Your well laid pre-planned strategies blown out of the water.

My guy friends are always telling me how they never win with their women. You’ve all experienced it: the long arguments, the silent treatments, her leaving the house and not telling you where she’s going, the character assassinations… the performance assassinations. She’s scorned. You’re in the line of fire. And you’re not sure what ammunition she’s packing.

My friends say no matter what the argument is or what they say, they always find themselves in the loser’s corner, the proverbial dog box. In the wide spectrum of arguments, she never seems to be in the wrong. But you don’t have to be beaten all the time. We women are simple creatures who need nothing more than slight persuasion. We are open to the idea that you could be right. So change your approach. Let me take you back to my friend who just lost another battle. Just so I don’t dis his business across town, we’ll call him Joe.

Joe knows this girl. His girlfriend doesn’t like her. The girlfriend thinks (or should I say knows – a woman always knows) that this girl wants him. So the dislike is justified – a girl’s got to protect what she’s got. One idle Tuesday afternoon, Joe is walking with his girlfriend when who should appear on the scene, but little missy. Joe tenses up when he sees her. He knows that from that very moment his every move is being watched. He must calculate accurately, there’s no room for error here.

To greet or not to greet? If he ignores her, the question will be ‘What was that about? Why was there so much tension between the two of you? Are you hiding something?’ No. He’ll render a normal greeting. Usually there’s a peck on the cheek, but not today. That’s definitely out of the question. She comes. He greets. No peck on the cheek. He asks very clinically how she’s doing, careful not to show any kind of emotion. Pleasantries pass. She walks away. Safe. ‘Well done old boy,’ he thinks. But he doesn’t see the bullets coming. ‘How come you didn’t kiss her on the cheek like you usually do? Is there something there you don’t want me to see? Do you want her Joe?’

That night the grilling begins – 45 minutes straight. Beaten, he mumbles, ‘Okay… I should’ve kissed her on the cheek.’ You lose. Again. Now, I admit poor Joe had a fairly good thought process going, full of logic. He thought he’d covered his bases. But therein lies the problem my friends. What made Joe’s girlfriend angry is not that Joe didn’t give her a peck on the cheek. In fact, had Joe so much as shook that tart’s hand he would’ve hit the sofa that night. What might seem like a lose-lose situation is actually not. The problem is that Joe was thinking about himself rather than about his girlfriend. That’s the problem with most guys – your game is all about the defense, you want to cover your own butts. What we wan to see is that you are considering ‘me’ in all of this. So whether you kiss her or not, what you do with me while you’re socializing is what matters. Introduce me, hold my hand while talking to her. Let her know that you’re happy with me. Bit of a curve ball isn’t it?

Remember, when arguing with a woman, you need to think out of the box. So how would it have turned out if Joe had climbed out of his box for this one? Joe pecks the girl on the cheek and then introduces his girlfriend. He holds her hand throughout the ensuing conversation. ‘Great play’ he thinks. But as soon as the girl leaves… And then? ‘Why were you all lovey-dovey to me when you saw her? What are you trying to prove? Why were you working so hard?’ Forget it. Men. They’re all the same.